Full Body Sensual Massage with a Sex Witch

I am a Sex Witch.  That is a statement as much of what I do as who I am.  

Forgive me a philosophical digression.

When we are born, so much of who we are is “given” to us by accident of birth.  Often, people will mistake these accidents as who someone is.  That doesn’t make sense to me.  Surely we are what we do.

“We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence is not an accident, it is a habit.”

–Aristotle

No less august a figure than Aristotle has posited that we are our actions.  Not our possessions.  The things we do.

Perhaps he was right. Did you know that he was also kinky? He was an original pony player. [As an aside, if you are interested in taking part in a photo shoot that recreates this saucy image amongst other greats from history, let me know…I’m looking for models of all kinds for kinky shoots. Must be “face out”, professional, and fun to work with.]

But Aristotles wise words miss the point.  Why? What we do is born of privilege, access, and the same accidents of birth that determine our position.  So, while the things we do is a better measure of a human than trappings, it still misses the most important about us, our choice. How we choose to live, as in our way.

To me, it is the how of life that counts.  How we go about what we do.  This form of character, of “usness”, the self, is the only trait that we fully control.  

Our “how” is the true measure of who and what we are.

An easy version of this is whether someone is pleasant or respectful.  These things matter.  They are anodyne only until they are absent.  But more profound things can also be the foundation of our how.  Our character can be defined by the way we navigate the world.

Grace.

Humour.

Style.

Wit.

Magic.

There is something else.  All these words represent admirable qualities, but mostly they speak of energy.  What is the energy of a person?  Our energy is what we put out.  And what better measure than conduct?

Why am I called to doing and being a Sex Witch?

The erotic is the language of the Divine.  As a two spirit, even if I identify as a trans woman, I carry the masculine and feminine within me.  How we speak and live and experience this language is a reflection of the deepest aspects of self: sex and gender, and therefore also sexuality.

Being a Sex Witch is to transmit this language.  My training as a Reiki practitioner, a form of profound energy work which some call witchery, teaches me to speak in the language of Divine energy every day.  And the more I practice it, the more fluent I become, and the deeper and stronger the flow of energy is.

My training as a Somatic Therapist teaches me how to read the body with my hands.  To listen with my hands, and to connect with my clients on a physical and energetic level.

Where we can go in an Elysium by Bondassage® session is into a land of the sensual that falls outside of the realm of traditional therapy and into bliss.  It is erotic, spiritual, and sexual all at once.  Being a Sex Witch is this.  When my energy is directed to transporting your energy to a different state of being.

I like to think of it as harmony.  When we are in sync with ourselves, mind, body, soul, we come into harmony.  And harmony is an energetic state.  Our harmony resonates with the universe.

Do you know what an Elysium by Bondassage® session is like now?  Probably not, so you’ll just have to book and find out.

In the meantime, consider that you will be tied, touched, teased, and very mildly tortured and tantalised.  Oh, and you will be blindfolded, so you can get out of your head and into your body.

But there is another reason. When you come to me and book an Elysium by Bondassage® session you have explicitly asked me to be with you in full Sex Witch mode. I tie you so that I may also be with you in full freedom. To touch you, to hold you, to guide you, to connect with you. If I have to worry about what you do with your hands and feet, it makes it harder for me to embody all of me.

Lay back, relax, let go, and be with a Sex Witch in her full glory.

An Invitation

If you are here, something in you has already responded.

This is not casual booking, and it is not for everyone. I work with people who are curious, intelligent, and willing to take responsibility for what they want.

Those who wish to work with me do not request. They present themselves.

Begin here.

About Me

Mx Valentina is a feminist dominatrix, a trans and intersex woman, whose practice centres on ethical power exchange and the conditions under which lives reorganise themselves around purpose rather than shame. Her work is selective and relational, grounded in the belief that submission is not a role to be played but an orientation that must already be present. She works only with those who understand that access is conditional and authority is not negotiated.  You can find my scholarly feminist writing on Substack and lighter pieces on Medium.