Valentina Dellagravis

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Two adult women in black lingerie sharing an intimate moment on a pale pink bed.

Tantric muse at play. All you need do is let go.

If a picture tells a thousand words, well, my dear, here you have a novella. Enjoy this glimpse of what it’s like to be with me: warm, sure, playful, and utterly commanding. You should be able to feel my touch in these pictures. Place yourself in the frame. Imagine the fantasies we might explore, and what it would feel like to surrender to them. Now you have found me. I shall be waiting.

Mx Valentina and a female companion relaxing together on a wooden boat on Lake Como.
Mx Valentina with a woman in an elegant interior, dressed for an intimate evening together.
Mx Valentina posing with a female companion in corsetry beside an ornate fireplace.
Mx Valentina standing closely with an elegantly dressed female companion in a grand interior.

The Muse

I am a courtesan of the old school. An erotic companion. An incorrigible flirt. Ivy League educated, versed in letters, and comfortable anywhere: from dive bars to the halls of power, from the Queen’s Enclosure at Royal Ascot to the white sand of a far-flung beach.

We are not defined by accidents of birth; who we really are and who we become stem from how we live our lives, our conduct, our intent. This is morality as lived experience.

Through the erotic we discover the Divine. My role is to open the channel. As a Medium and Shaman, as an Intersex woman, I have become fluent in the language of border zones, the liminal, the interplay between light and dark, our shadows. This is where our source energy comes from. My lineage is ancient, shrouded in the mists of time. Your system will feel it in my presence, and we will down-regulate together.

As we linger together, wandering the streets of a magical city, the forgotten lanes and byways of the countryside, or playing behind closed doors, the spirit world will speak.

To live with freedom and all the zest of possibility colouring what we see is to savour. That is what time with me will give to you: the taste of possibility, the motivation and hunger to be your very best self.

More than anything we shall have fun. The bliss of touch while doing it is its own reward.

Walk with me. Let our time become the most exquisite dalliance. Linger. Open your eyes to your own Divinity. And through my touch, experience the flow of Divine Goddess energy.

Mx Valentina and a female companion sitting together at sunset overlooking the Italian landscape.
Mx Valentina with a stylish female companion in an old Italian stone street.
Mx Valentina laughing with a female companion during a playful moment on a staircase.
Valentina Dellagravis sharing private sapphic intimacy with a female companion
Valentina Dellagravis in an intimate staircase portrait with a woman
Valentina Dellagravis laughing with a woman in a playful sapphic companion portrait
Sapphic switch Valentina Dellagravis in a WLW female power exchange scene with another woman
Valentina Dellagravis exploring sapphic switching and female power

Sapphic Intimacy
& Women’s
Pleasure

A woman’s beauty is born from her curiosity. A sense of wonder, a willingness to explore, an ease with novelty. When a woman turns that energy inwards, towards her own body and the pleasure and joy which reside there, it is beautiful to behold.

I am a guide. For once, you don’t need to worry about anyone else. There is no performance here, no expectation, no right or wrong way to do something or to be. What happens between us grows from your own desire, curiosity and interest in exploring.

So many of the women who see me tell me they are straight, or not into pain, or are not masochists, but somewhere inside they wonder whether everyone else is having more fun. You don’t need to be anything. What matters is that you were curious enough, and love yourself enough, to allow yourself an indulgence.

Women do not often book companions because the world has taught us to approach intimacy in other ways. Those ways can bring attachment, complication and the feeling that something is expected of you. Time spent with an elite courtesan is one of life’s great luxuries, and an expression of freedom that most certainly does not belong only to men.

What we do together is a dance, moving and exploring in unison. I am a dominant companion by nature, but when the chemistry is right, I switch easily. Your body will guide us both. For the rest, I will flirt with you mercilessly: over dinner, at the theatre, looking at art, wandering the streets of a magical city, or in a private bubble of romance to savour long after we part.

You do not need to know what you want before you come to me. Introduce yourself. Wanting to find out is enough.

Valentina Dellagravis and a woman sharing the intimate moment before a kiss in a sapphic WLW portrait
Lesbian companion Valentina Dellagravis sharing an intimate embrace with a woman in a private WLW scene
Valentina Dellagravis sharing tender private bath intimacy with a woman in a sapphic WLW companion scene
ROPE — PRINCIPAL WIDE LANDSCAPE
ROPE — TALL PORTRAIT
ROPE — LARGE LANDSCAPE

Somatic Ritual, Rope & Touch

Touch forms the core of my spiritual-erotic practice. It draws on many disciplines. When I consider years of practice and training, this is where it has led. Thousands of hours each of Tantric touch, Rosen Method Somatic Therapy and Reiki energy work, together with rope learned around the world both as model and rigger, all come together in a dreamy fugue where two spirits dance in the half-light and discover the stories held in our bodies.

There is no destination, there is just now. Rope is a tool: a beautiful flavour enhancer. Its application is not central to the story, but it provides structure, a form of certainty that allows the body to down-regulate and, in the resultant calm, lets us linger in the eddies of our dreams.

And as I touch, within the boundaries we have agreed, I listen with my hands. The body yields its secrets. Sometimes an emotion finds its voice, a memory stirs, or something held beyond conscious thought begins to make itself known. These practices are a form of body love. Permission. At times the mixture of disciplines opens the door to emotion, and in this I am priestess, guide and sensual muse.

We may also work together to create beautiful rope-based sensual boudoir photography, for who is not drawn to the elegant self? I work with several talented artists who can capture the moment in all its simplicity, complexity, whimsy and beauty. This can unfold in my studio on Lake Como in Italy or in a destination of your choosing.

Because of the intimacy and intensity of this work, I offer it only to women and other FLINTA people, including trans men and trans women. I particularly welcome those with physical or body-related challenges, for whom touch itself may be part of the answer.

ROPE — PRINCIPAL TALL PORTRAIT
ROPE — LARGE WIDE IMAGE
ROPE — TALL PORTRAIT / DETAIL
ROPE — PORTRAIT
ROPE — WIDE / CENTRAL IMAGE
ROPE — PORTRAIT / DETAIL
POWER EXCHANGE — GIANT CINEMATIC IMAGE

Power Exchange & Devotion

Power exchange is about trust, authority, obedience, service, and the relief that can come from letting someone else lead. My style is quiet rather than theatrical. I rarely need to raise my voice. The work is about the relationship between us: how attention is given, how control is offered, and how submission can become something chosen, useful, and deeply satisfying.

POWER EXCHANGE — PORTRAIT
POWER EXCHANGE — PORTRAIT
POWER EXCHANGE — MEDIUM IMAGE
POWER EXCHANGE — LARGE WIDE IMAGE
POWER EXCHANGE — IMAGE
POWER EXCHANGE — SMALLER IMAGE
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Valentina Dellagravis comforting an adult woman wearing a diaper and pacifier during consensual ABDL age play
Valentina Dellagravis beside a woman suspended upside down during a bondage scene in a BDSM dungeon
Valentina Dellagravis with women exploring theatrical maid roleplay and service submission
Valentina Dellagravis in white underwear and a leather body harness holding a whip during fetish play

Role Play, Fetish &
Private Mythology

What I know from years of practice is that the inventiveness of humankind is profoundly complex and intoxicating. I hold a deep belief that creative expression is the language of the Divine. Our bodies are meant to experience erotic energy, and physical pleasure and its expression are perhaps among the most important ways we honour the sacred nature of life.

We do not need to understand why something excites us. Not every fantasy or turn-on stems from trauma. Some things can simply be. As a long-time student of the erotic mind, and a specialist in dynamic power exchange, I approach kink with a tender heart and a nurturing hand. To play as consenting adults in the playground of your own mind, co-creating with a bemused and equally curious libertine all the ways we might bring your fantasies to life, is an unquestionable luxury.

I delight especially in the pre-verbal fetish worlds of puppies, kittens and other pets, but hold a special place in my practice for Age Play and ABDL. Nurturing as Mommy speaks to me too. My approach to impact play has little to do with pain, although sensation is very much the point. With thousands of hours of professional training in the listening hands of Rosen Method Somatic Therapy, Tantric touch and bodywork, and Reiki, you will find me an unconventional, and perhaps utterly disarming, whip mistress.

In my space you will never be judged. You do not need to perform or explain yourself. We can simply explore what excites you with curiosity, warmth and a little mischief. If you are new to this world, curious about something you have never tried, or have always been afraid to open up enough to share it with someone else, I am here for you. A thousand-million percent. Let’s play.

Valentina Dellagravis in a uniform dominating a kneeling male submissive during authority roleplay
Valentina Dellagravis holding the leash of a kneeling woman during latex fetish and femdom obedience play
Valentina Dellagravis holding the leash of a masked human puppy during consensual adult pet play
Two women silhouetted during a dramatic BDSM roleplay and power exchange scene
Valentina Dellagravis raising a flogger over a restrained woman during consensual impact play
Valentina Dellagravis exploring intimate BDSM sensation play with a restrained woman

When you are ready, a thoughtful introduction is enough.

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