Valentina Dellagravis in a white dress on stone steps, composed and elegant, representing bespoke private companionship rates.

Rates

Where everything is bespoke

I work with bespoke rates to reflect the unique requests that come my way. This is not a menu in a restaurant but a measure of depth and connection, measured in intensity, time, frequency, all of which affect what a session costs.

If you have a particular budget in mind, it is good to know what that is so that we can determine quickly if there is scope to find common interest.


Rates

  • In-person engagements begin at €/$/£ 1,000 minimum (by home currency)
  • Longer sessions, overnights, multi-day have a relatively lower per-hour rate
  • FLINTA pricing is in effect, as a reflection of moral and political philosophy
  • Travel, exclusivity, and special requests are priced accordingly
  • Retainers and other remote contact packages are quite common

Finding what works best for both of us is always part of the process and a healthy sign.


Next Steps

If these terms feel clear and proportionate to what you are seeking, introduce yourself, and don’t be shy.

Gifts

Gifts are never required, but they are always noticed.

A thoughtful gift is a way of showing attention: to my tastes, my comfort, my rituals, and the kind of woman you understand me to be. I appreciate gestures that are chosen with care rather than excess, and I value courtesy more than display.

If you wish to send something before we meet, after an encounter, or simply as a mark of appreciation, you may do so through my Throne.

Gifts do not create access, priority, or obligation. They are received as gestures of respect, gratitude, and good taste.

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Third Party Listings

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All enquiries, screening, and arrangements are still handled here on this site.

Author

  • I am Valentina Dellagravis, a Sex Witch, tantrica, and dominatrix — a guide into the erotic as a path of power, healing, and self-discovery. Educated at the world’s most elite institutions and a former CEO, I now dedicate myself to erotic alchemy: using kink, ritual, and intimacy to transform.

    As an intersex/trans woman, I have lived the liminal space between male and female my entire life. I embody both energies, and I bring this intersex, alchemical perspective into every encounter.

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