Valentina Dellagravis holding a woman in a warm bath in an intimate private setting with flowers and soft light.

Meet Me

How to approach a professional companion.

First, know that I want to meet you. Why? Because I am curious about you, what is happening in your life, your body, and your mind. What is it that has led you to me. That is the place we are to go together if indeed we shall meet.

Respect is the base ingredient of a successful encounter. We will respect each others time, energy, privacy, boundaries, processes…and by doing that, will be able to focus on that spark that made you read this, made you write, made you press ‘send’.

I want to understand what makes you tick. What itch are you yearning to scratch? Where in your life are you feeling unattended? What obstacles are you facing, whether coming from within or from the world around you? Do you feel able to create? To be the best you?

Who touches you? Who listens to you?

I have one goal. For you to walk away from every encounter with me feeling better about yourself, your life, and feeling energised by our time together.

And as part of a first booking, I want to know ‘why have you chosen me’, and ‘why now’?

To some, the word “dominatrix” brings up fantasies or notions. ‘To lead’ feels a better fit…what happens next is a dance between us, where we can explore, in safety and tranquility, things that you might be curious for or hunger for. My dominance is what allows you to relax into a strong container, knowing that we are exploring within defined parameters.

It is preferable to get to know someone before going deeper, but that can always be at a pace that feels right for you. Social dates are a great way to begin a deeper and longer-lasting dynamic.

I work strictly by prior arrangement. Preference is given to longer, unhurried engagements and to those who value discretion, continuity, and trust. My favourite dates play out over days, involve travel, and result in a deeper, more organic bond.



What Happens Next

Your submission will be reviewed personally.

If we are a good fit, I will be in touch with the formal steps required to meet me, including availability, practical arrangements, and confirmation of terms.

I do not respond to every application. Silence should be understood as a lack of alignment, not an invitation to follow up.

Please note that I am delighted to meet with anyone over 21, of any body shape or size, fit or challenged, of any race or creed, and am happy to discuss all kinds of fantasies.

Discretion is assumed and respected at all times.

Author

  • I am Valentina Dellagravis, a Sex Witch, tantrica, and dominatrix — a guide into the erotic as a path of power, healing, and self-discovery. Educated at the world’s most elite institutions and a former CEO, I now dedicate myself to erotic alchemy: using kink, ritual, and intimacy to transform.

    As an intersex/trans woman, I have lived the liminal space between male and female my entire life. I embody both energies, and I bring this intersex, alchemical perspective into every encounter.

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